Trust + Communication x Real Love = Strong and Longer Relationship

Relationships can be seen on different forms, different points of views and beliefs. As for me I see relationship as a sacred moment in which two lost souls find what they were looking for ,or not exactly it, but it’s the next step on finding the right person, right?? When I was young often dreamed of having a prince charming who would travel distance just to find me but unfortunately for me nothing really come knocking on my door. Well there were few but I never really felt the spark that “omg this is it I found Mr. prince-charming-who-would-travel-a-distance-to-find-me feeling!”

I was a never a big fan of long distance relationship until I found myself stuck with one. Before I remember telling my friends “long distance love never really exist it’s a big lie a big excuse of not accepting the fact that it will end soon” but then again I realized what am I missing? What was it that I haven’t seen? What was it that I haven’t been able to calculate? Ever wondered why our parents can last 5 to 6 years or more having along distance relationship?

It was October 12 this year when all this questions have been answered. I met a guy who turn my life upside down, who made me realize how worthy I am, who helped me cherish every moment and forget about tomorrow. That it was about me, him and us and his name is Nordie. Many things have been keeping us apart friends, issues and most of all distance! Yes DISTANCE is the biggest factor but it didn’t hinder us from making each other feel how special we are and how much we love each other.

By this I realize one thing, the thing that I haven’t seen, the thing that I had miscalculated, and the thing that makes this kind of relationship work. It’s non other than TRUST. Yes indeed in order to make a long distance relationship work is to keep the trust and to let go of the doubts. You see I once you started to trust your partner other things doesn’t really matter coz it would simply be in their right places.

Communication! It is very important to keep communication open as often as possible. You see with Nordie one thing I like about him is that sense of making you feel safe during conversation. You could tell him everything without any hesitations and fear. Every time he talks or say something you could feel the sincerity and the truthfulness on it.

Trust + Communication x Real Love = Strong and Longer Relationship! Distance doesn’t really matter, physical appearance doesn’t count. What matters is that you would like to make it work. I remember what my mom used to tell me “ once in a while you need to close your eyes  listen to what your heart says, stop thinking about what others have say or what others have to think, coz at the end of the day it’s your happiness that is in stake”

To sum this all up I am thankful that once in my life there was a man who stand up beside me then brave enough to hold my hand and said “I will never let go,  ill be here don’t know what tomorrow might bring what matter is that I cherish every moment and every day we have, and I love you” and this is what I have to say “I am thankful that in this crazy world of mine you came, and put me back on track. I was lost and you found me, I was down and you lifted me up. I was about to lose hope then you came and turn things to its rightful places. Mr. right came in different forms and for me you just came as perfect as what I imagined you to be. Thank you for making me feel loved and thank you for teaching me important values in life. I don’t care about what tomorrow brings what matter is we love each other and im willing to leap boundaries and take risks and stretch as often as I can….. and you’re a part of my life and will always be and by that I LOVE YOU WITH ALL OF MY HEART”

I am a believer….. I am in love ….. I am only yours……