Hay eto nana man ako inspired gumawa ng blog bago ko simulan blog ko let me thanks certain people 1st si “BORABABY” siya kasi inspiration ko sa pagsulat nito if he didn’t open up di ko makakaisip ng topic. 2nd si karla na panay panay binabasa blog ko thanks naapriciate kita. 3rd si dico Louie na nagbigay sakin ng isang eye opener na clincher ehehe. Lastly si mommy ko at ang kanyang words of wisdom. Now lets begin.
What might be the cause why you must stop loving someone??? That was the question ask by my fellow student when I was reading my messages this morning. Then I remember my friend Mackie (he is actually borababy I mention him earlier) he’s from Cebu he’s a really nice guy, he’s friendly but the problem is he is committed to someone who is miles away from him with no other communication but the internet. But despite of this kind of relationship he remained honest, loyal and trustworthy.
They’ve been together for a long time now but he revealed that his partner was not making that much effort as he is. That he is often times taken for granted. That his partner is engaged on other relationships in addition to this he barely felt the love that he was looking for. Sadly Mackie remained to be their for his partner. Hoping that one day that person would wake up someday realizing his worth.
Yesterday when I was chatting Mackie confessed that he is getting tired of the same scenario which happens over and over. Furthermore, he also told me that he’s been crying almost every night for the same reason and he’s about to breakdown any moment and the worst part is he is falling out of love.
I advised him to still hold on to his partner a little bit longer and try to fix their relationship until it’s not to late. But the truth is at the back of my mind I really wanted to tell him to stop and sit down and rest. Put his gun down and stop the fight. Coz a person like him doesn’t deserve to be taken for granted.
Then this morning he told me that he finally broke up with his partner not because he want to but because it’s the right thing to do. The hardest part of being loved by someone is the uncertainty that it may stop anytime and sadly for his partner it ends today. You really have to be tired to realize love can end especially if it wasn’t meant to be
Train yourself to let go of the things you fear to lose, so that when that something is gone you wont feel shitty, damn hurting and worthless. One thing I’ve learned from Nico Miguel is that never let the someone be your everything while he makes you feel like your nothing. Lower all your defenses fall if you have to fall because I know someday you’ll recover.
Take out all your expectations as my mom told me before “EXPECTATIONS are the ones who’s responsible for all the PAIN that you’re acquiring”. In short don’t be stupid holding on to somebody who is obviously fooling you. Remember: “wala pang medalya para sa tanga”. Your world doesn’t only revolve on him. If you would only try to look around you a lot of people are willing to make you happy. Don’t let your heart to be numb, be sensitive. Even insects get tired, even Spiderman had surrender and even Superman does get weak at times.
Sometimes I know its hard to be hurt but still you have to try coz to be hurt is a part of being complete. Things happen coz we choose to, there maybe regret but blaming is not an option. We are where we are coz we brought ourselves there. In our life we are given certain choices, have to make certain decisions that may change our life we get happy, we get sad but most importantly we learn. Every beginning has to end and Every story that ends will open a way for new stories to start. Who knows the next story might be the best love story written for you by God.
Happiness begins at the point of acceptance: the point when we stop questioning why life can’t be that perfect……..
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